As I’ve said before, the best way to meet the right Mr.Right is by doing things and going places that you’d do or go to anyway, even if there was no chance of meeting a man.
The following quiz lists twenty factors that can affect spouse-finding. Do I speak more rapidly, or slowly with pauses between words?If you find that you’re often trying to change something about yourself thinking it will make you more attractive to the guy you just met, then you are, like I was, lacking in self-esteem and confidence in yourself.Don’t be too hard on yourself, this is very common but it means that you need to work on finding and loving the real you before trying to love someone else. Right does walk into your life, you’ll both be in the right state of mind, in the right place, at the right time. Your friends and family have warned you that he’s a player, or a loser, or a (enter your favorite derogatory term for a bad boyfriend here) but you’ve written them off, believing that you’re going to be the one woman that can change him into the perfect partner. Find what makes you happy before you’re in a relationship, then find someone to share that happiness with. What this really means is that they’re looking for dysfunction so that they have the drama in their lives that they subconsciously crave. That one’s tough to answer, because it entails really looking at yourself and your beliefs, attitudes and behaviors in a real, open, and honest way. And that’s when I asked myself this very same question and I realized that I didn’t like the answer. So how do you know if you’re ready for a relationship before you start one with either the wrong guy or Mr. If you’re showing any of these warning signs, it means you have some work to do on yourself before you can be in a healthy, happy relationship with someone else: 1. This typically happens because you’re subconsciously trying to sabotage the relationship from the beginning by choosing a guy who’s not actually relationship material. If you get an invite to a party or event, and you don’t have a man to bring, then you’re likely to make up an excuse, send your regrets, pass up the night out and sit at home feeling sorry for yourself because you are “oh, so alone.” Then, you spend the entire night Googling “best places to meet men” and reading articles about what men find attractive instead of doing something that would make you happy (like going to the party you were invited to.) The truth is that if you did meet a great guy while in this mindset, you’d hold on so tight so quickly that you’d most likely strangle the relationship anyway. Many women have a savior complex and they find themselves a project guy.If any of the above sound like you, then you need to start looking inward and making some changes to your life in order to get yourself ready to be with someone else. Once you have these licked, you will be ready for a real relationship.