For example, there was a great study that showed women were really attracted to men with lower voices but because they associate low voices with infidelity, they tend to disqualify these men for long term relationships.
Anyway, after reading a lot of articles, I distilled the lists down the best I could and came up with these top 9 criteria: With that list, how on earth could working out with weights help you? Many guys look at this list, see humor at the top of these lists and go memorizing jokes. If you are trying hard to make someone like you by forcing jokes, you might as well put a red flashing beacon on your head that says “Insecure”.
In John Gray’s landmark book “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” the many differences between men and women are pointed out and many of them are very applicable to the dating scene.
Gray points out the importance of communication styles is pointed out and the difference in styles between men and women.
It takes someone REALLY confident to be nice, and women dig both NICE and CONFIDENT.
So what does confidence and nice have to do with lifting weights?
There was a study published in the Psychology of Music that showed that the same man carrying a guitar case instead of a gym bag was 3x more likely to get a woman’s phone number!
If you want yet another reason to work on time management so that you can follow your true passions , this is it.
Since this is all about improving self confidence and self esteem, its quite likely that cheating shortcuts wont help you that much on the dating scene. – she is incredibly attractive and he looks very ordinary.” Men and women are very different in what characteristics attract them.
They set their goals for gaining strength and getting leaner and make progress week by week.
When these folks start to lose bodyfat and their shirts slowly start to get tighter in the chest and looser around the waist, they realize that they are NOT losers and they can accomplish what they set out to do – in short, they get self confidence that transfers over to all aspects of their life.
This lack of self-esteem and confidence is what is most preventing them from getting girlfriends, not the lack of abs and big pecs.
Lifting weights is a GREAT way to build your self-esteem and your confidence!!!
Lifting weights WILL help you get dates but not for the reason you think and its important that you understand how it helps you because it can make the difference between dates and no dates.