"Take the lead and play a traditional male role in the relationship in other ways, like planning dates and opening doors," says Jennifer Kelman, author of .
"If she loves weekend trips to tropical paradises, turn your apartment into a beach shack and whip up some fruity umbrella drinks."Just because she's banking, doesn't mean you should be a baby—or a burden.
"If you've planned an evening you can't afford just to impress her, consider making different plans." Don't let pride or embarrassment turn into excess spending and anger.
Just because she wears thousand dollar shoes doesn't mean you have to.
They don’t know where to go, what to say, how to act, and most importantly, they don’t know how to set up a second date! Take their tips and their advice and really soak them in. Take a moment to do your mental preparation before you meet your date. Knowing the answer to these questions allows you to engage in a manner consistent with your desires.
Yes, all is lost by the end of most first dates, and there is little hope for men to correct these issues . Many of these professionals have been helping men just like you for years and years; so believe in what they say. When your intentions are clear, your meeting will be purposeful.
No financial responsibilities, no work, no problem--but these situations come with costs.