Without that end goal, I don’t know how sustainable that relationship really is.Not knowing when you are properly going to be reunited with your partner makes you feel uncertain, anxious, and worried about whether he or she is seeing somebody else.It depends on the distance but once a month is reasonable. It depends on how much money people have got and not letting your love life get in the way of your studies.Some couples can last up to a year being apart, if they are really strong and determined, but that’s rare.Don’t forget there are people who do that because they are jealous of your relationship.But it’s hard to differentiate between someone being bitchy or someone genuinely concerned for your wellbeing. How should you treat the limited, precious time you have together when you meet again? I would think that if you have that limited time together all you probably want to do is be together alone and be in bed together.Many people do the whole “you make me feel” blaming thing, and shaming, rather than having a proper conversation.
Although if you are seeing someone every fortnight, its great to involve friends as well.But if a girl is going off to see her boyfriend every fortnight, and his friends are always around him, she might feel that she’s being a bit sidelined, and not special. Perhaps ask yourself, are you having a one to one relationship with someone or with your friends?Also it’s normal not to always like the friends of your boyfriend or girlfriend, as we are all different. It is better to wait until you are together face to face? What is important is being able to resolve a problem rather than sulking and ignoring each other. However, if you are with someone in Australia or China, it’s another story. We asked leading relationship expert Diana Parkinson to help us determine whether or not that long lost lover really is Are long distance relationships sustainable? Young people are so worried about Brexit, but I don’t think we’ll be in any trouble at all.It is good to chat to each other about how often you both feel the need to keep in touch, so that you are both comfortable.