Due to growing up in a homophobic society, most gay men as teenagers had to keep their sexualities hidden for fear of social backlash and further damage to their already shaky self-images.Some boys chose to distance themselves completely from dating, while others chose to date their female peers to more easily “fit in” and be accepted.One of the developmental tasks of all adolescents is to establish productive relationships with their peer group and to understand and manage their sexuality.Dating provides fertile training ground for these teens for learning about themselves and how to establish and maintain healthy intimate relationships as they continue to mature and grow. But as much as I liked him sexually, I didn't feel any other connection. But the problem with bedding someone who wants a wedding is the pain created by mismatched intentions. The guy was my type the way Arial is the 's type: Easy on the eyes, making you impatient to get to the end.Without training, education, and support, many gay men are forced to “wing it” as they mingle and mate with other men, leaving many of them unsatisfied with their dating experiences and wondering if they’ll ever find a loving partner to settle down with. Creating a full life puts you in charge of your own happiness and puts less emphasis and dependency on finding a relationship to make you whole.
As a result, many gay men as adults remain perplexed and confused about how to date other men.
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Maybe that's why so many of us gay men are single for so long.
If we could direct our sexual desire from physical to the emotional we'd lead more fulfilled lives. Too bad we can't call up biological electricians and have them re-wire us.
For some, there was no other choice for them but to date girls, while for others it was an attempt to extinguish their feelings they had for males.