While the gig itself was flexible with it’s hours and it paid well, it totally exhausted me.More often than not, people did not want to talk on the phone , so I would have to deal with their anger, irritation, and lots of hang ups. After college, I worked for a medical company doing prior authorization for nursing visits and home medical equipment.Even if both are keen and agree sex will meet their mutual needs, if a boy is not sure he can trust his partner, then it may not be wise.
While other people may influence their decision, they shouldn’t make it for them. Parents should compile their own compendium of wisdom on the topic.
Boys need to be able to pass the theory before taking the practical.
A boy needs to ask himself, and his partner needs to ask themself, whether they will be able to bask in the glow of pleasant memories after having sex, or whether they might be haunted by regrets.
These include, but are not limited to, sex being: pleasurable, normal, biologically important and instinctive.
Having got that out of the way, it’s time to consider the sorts of things a parent (both parents, preferably) can chat about with their son on the topic of sex.
This can be a particular problem with boys who watch a lot of porn.