If you want to know exactly what makes a man commit and how to make him commit to you (and only you), then take a look at this article here: MORE: 4 Ways To Make Him Commit and Want Only You I met this guy years ago, let’s call him Craig.
He was a bartender at a restaurant I used to frequent and after several flirty exchanges, he finally asked for my number.
On the night of our first date, I had to delay our meeting time by a few hours because I forgot I was supposed to be having dinner with some friends.
When I eventually met up with Craig at the bar, the first thing he said after our friendly hellos and my apology for changing things around last minute was: “I like that you didn’t cancel on your friends.
And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.
When you have a fulfilling life of your own that exists completely separate from him, you will automatically be seen as having great value.
When a guy has you and gets to keep you without really putting in much effort, your stock inevitably goes down in his mind.I hope this sheds some light on the whole game conundrum.So go out there and do your thing, be happy without him (whether him is in the picture or not), and let him be the icing on your perfect cake, rather than the flour, the eggs, the sugar and whatever other ingredients go into making a cake!When your happiness is rooted in all sorts of things, not just him, you will never have to watch what you say or do for fear of coming off as needy because you will never be needy.MORE: A Guy’s Take on Neediness Now it is worth noting that a lot of women want to know how to make a guy chase them because they want him to pursue her and commit.At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!