Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.
You didn’t know how to keep her interested in you over text long enough to get her out on a date. texting is like a big mystery for a lot of us guys. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it’s like having a superpower…
Mistake #2 – Waiting too long to invite her out and set up the date – The main reason you get a girl’s number is because you’re not able to take her out on a date right then and there when you meet her. The longer you wait to ask her out, she more chance she has to forget about you.
Remember, she’s on social media all day long and also has other guys asking her out. C = Close – This is what you should start with when you first get her number.
Instead try this: act as if you’ve got a dozen other women texting you, and that you’re someone who is high status.
If you had a lot of women texting you, you’re not going to try and have long, drawn out conversations with one woman.
If you send plain, boring texts like “Hey, how’s it going?
Texting IS that superpower, and here’s why it’s critical to learn it if you want more women in your life: Also, it’s important to learn this because, if she’s at all attractive, she has other guys who are texting her as well.
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.
but if you start making these mistakes and she loses interest (and stops replying), then it was all for nothing.
The first thing to learn here is how to take your foot “off the brakes” regarding texting. Mistake #1 – Trying to build attraction over text – One of the most important things to remember is that it’s better to build attraction in person when you’re face to face, not over text.
Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.