If you truly believe this is something you can deal with, and you are able to love and cherish this woman and help her with the emotional and physical effects of this, then great! It’s better to decide okay to move on in the dating process. Besides, it would be better for her to find someone whom God has gifted to be able to handle her past. You might see a problem in how her mother treats her father—which could be an indicator of how their daughter will treat you. Some could be more difficult issues like sexual abuse or addictions to alcohol or pornography.If, on the other hand, you struggle with some things in her character that allowed her to make that decision, or you are concerned about the emotional and possible physical issues that may result, you have every right to move on. Maybe your special “someone” tells you that they have a sexually transmitted disease – one that you too will get once you marry them. These kinds of issues are all fair game during the discovery process of dating – again, that’s part of what dating is about.Ultimately, that is what the dating process is for – to decide, based on what you have learned, whether or not to marry that person.As people of the Christian faith – a faith that stresses hope for our future, despite the failings of our past – we oftentimes deliberately ignore a person’s past when deciding on a mate.
It is imperative that men and women are totally honest with each other during the dating process.Or many feel obligated to follow through with a relationship just because they have been dating for a while, even though they may have some strong reservations.But if you are struggling with any aspect of who a person is, you probably need to look at that as a red flag.The dating process is about finding out about someone, the choices they’ve made and who they are. ” It’s not about refusing to forgive a person’s shortcomings or judging someone harshly for their mistakes.You can forgive them (God certainly does), but it doesn’t mean you have to marry them.These types of things should be revealed at the front end.