However, to be able to do this all the time is an advanced practice for enlightened masters.
You’re so comfortable, and giddy that at last you’ve found a guy who you can really be yourself with. All this excitement and attraction can blind you from seeing red flags that could be popping up all over the place.Click through to see some of the biggest offenders and suggestions for how to let them go. Plus: 8 Types Of Scientists We Want To Date And Why The Pattern: After a date, you lie in bed all day reliving every delicious moment from the night before.If you can break these deadly dating patterns, you might have a shot at that love thing after all. Or as soon as you meet a guy, you envision your future dates with him, marrying him, or just having hot sex with him.It isn’t enough to date someone who is doing what you want to be doing and it doesn’t bring you any closer to your goals.Take a class, apply for the kinds of jobs you dream of having, start a blog, go on auditions, dust off your guitar and hit an open mic.At work, you bump into cabinets and space out during meetings because you’re so intoxicated by fantasies of this guy. Your attention span is shot and you can only keep your mind off him long enough to read a Tweet. How To Break It: Make a rule for yourself: No Fantasy.