when we met i was cool and detached, but kept a big smile on my face.after 6 weeks he suddenly out of the blue text me, but i did not answer until the next day and even then i was afraid of being hurt again, so i kept my replies very short and blunt. it turned out to be a fabulous evening, he was great company.
when i asked why he had run away the first time he refused to tell me, but i actually feel that he was getting to like me too much and was afraid of his own feelings!
I don't think I have ever been is such a good relationship - he is definitately someone that I could be with for a long time. ive heard some pretty bad things about him, i am a virgo, so i try not to be too suspicious or judgeing, but when i hear the same thing from like, 30 girls, (especially ones who have dated him) i get worried (as virgos do) he and his mom said they didnt even know what those girls were talking about. but, hes dated practically EVERY girl ive hated since the third grade... I care but I can also turn it off if they are pissing me off.
FYI - for 15 years I was with a Virgo - two signs that should never be together. so then i was like, youve dated her, and her, and WHO ELSE?! then i hugged is mom goodbye and turned around to give him a hug... Basically you are 16 and you should NEVER base your notion of confidence on what one man thinks.
We tend to notice perfection and get angry at ourselves when we don't match what we think we should do or say.
75% of the time, you just have to give us a look when we say something hurtful, and it might take a day or two but we will come back and apologize to you, unless you have severely violated us. Once you know each of our personalities and combine it with the astrological concepts, we're very easy to understand on a general basis, but our intellectual side can often mess with relationships as we always lust for more in that department.
he still sometimes refuses to answer text if he feels i have overstepped the mark. Don't "never explain yourself," as honestly that will just piss us off and make us not trust you as much as you'd like. Unpredictability is intriguing, but it can and often does follow the same line as never explaining anything.
he does like his freedom and so i dont ever get jealous or clingy. We tend to read between the lines and guess things correctly, but if we don't concretely know our minds go along eighty million different lines and it's very frustrating.
Sounds all complex but they are perverse, yet sexy and very loyal in a loyal. If I had been single, all of this would have intrigued me but I was married and my husband means the world to me. I wasn't looking to have an affair at the time but somehow I felt as though he was looking to mess up my marriage.Hes got the BIGGEST EGO EVER, every time me and his mom said something was cute hed be like "are you talking about me? ' anywayy, whenever i see him now, he hides his face, looks all nervous, messes up his hair, and basically tries to hide..... Thats why I always think its best if we have older lovers, they don't take our Ice queen crap seriously. and it's always nice to feel powerful, even if your bloke won't admit that to you EVER. Get some distance, if he likes you he will be back after he has sorted his head out and admitted he actually does like you in a deep way.xx I am an aquarius and I am good friends with an aquarian man.We won't hide that we like you, we just wait for you to come to us.That's how we decide right off the bat if you're a possibility, that you had the kahones to ignore our distance and talk to us.Both of us are in a committed relationship with our own problems.