Despite knowing I should play the field more, I haven't been able to bring myself to do it. I could tell I liked her because I got into a good mood whenever she texted/talked to me.While I was hanging out with Pam, I went to a party and met a friend of a friend named Nicole.I know it might be too early in the relationships, but should I choose one guy at this point?Would it be wise for me to date two people at once? This question comes frequently, both in a church setting like yours, as well as in the context of online dating sites.Rarely does it happen that two men pursue with equal interest and intentionality, stirring in a woman an equal response and potential for love and marriage.
But what if one or both of these relationships gets serious?And, let's face it, I'm not used to more than one girl liking me at a time.I'm able to manage multiple friendships, because it's important to me, so maybe if relationships are important enough, I can pull it off.So all of my guy friends and even most of my girl friends were telling me to hang out with both women.Essentially they advised me to "see other people."I've never been comfortable with the idea of "seeing other people."Here are pros and cons of seeing other people: Incomplete projects strewn around is a hallmark of the ADD-afflicted person's life. Considering I have trouble following through with one girl,how much trouble will I have following through and managing two different relationships? I have fun with both of them, and they both show signs of being a godly husband.